pda

The topic of PDA is a touchy subject for a lot of people some people hate it and some are okay with it. It usually is based on your relationship status  and Some other things like how safe and secure you feel in that relationship but sometimes people really just hate PDA and no one wonders why?

My opinion on this topic depends on the situation, sometimes I am perfectly fine with it because it isn't very annoying if they are just hugging and kissing, but when there they are super touchy and can’t get enough of over each other is when i have have a problem with it because that is when it is like “ get a room”.

You're probably confused on why people care so much sometimes because right it's not that big of a deal? Wrong the reason why you feel this way can be from your culture or if you feel insecure in your relationship you might want to be touched in public by your partner because it makes you feel better about yourself.

Secondly, if you like PDA you might not be paying attention when you are doing it because you're to focused on yourself and how you boyfriend/ girlfriend is touching you.

Now the main reason why some people like it or dislike it in my opinion is, How you grew up. If you grew up in a household with a single mom  that was never really in a relationship and if she was it wasn’t for very long then you might not like it as much but, if you grew up with lovey dovey parents and/ or siblings then you will be used to it by now and you probably won't even notice it and you might also do it.

A solution to this problem is people need to stop caring or couples don't have to show as much PDA happen with you and your partner. Also remember this article next time you're in public either showing PDA or seeing it that 1. It can be a trigger for some people and 2. It can help that person feel way more secure in their relationship, I know that it helps me in relationships feel wanted. But also not everyone will be satisfied.

In my opinion now after i read that article                                                                             ( https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/psychological-reasons-behind-pda/1603821 ) then PDA wasn’t bad to me anymore there is still kind of a limit to it as there is with everything else. But it isn’t annoying to me anymore.